Nov 8, 2017
Compassion and caring about others
Keya Curtis walks into the YWCA of Greater Cincinnati lobby and greets the receptionist with a warm smile. She’s there to teach a weekly Project CARE STARR class, which helps women with disabilities learn about healthy relationships, personal rights and empowerment.
Though often soft-spoken, Curtis exudes confidence—no small feat for someone who has had such a remarkable journey. “I’m here helping women that need help. I’m here to step up for others, be a friend and help them speak up for themselves,” she said. “It brings me joy, and I like seeing their progress.”
In a way, Curtis, 38, has come full circle. She participated in one of the pilot STARR classes in 2015 after battling a drug problem and losing custody of her children. She’s been diagnosed with a mild intellectual disability, bipolar disorder and depression, and was a victim of abuse and neglect when she was a child. Curtis credits the STARR class with helping turn her life around and overcoming past trauma. “People can change,” she said.
In August 2016 she was hired as a Project CARE self-advocate, thanks to a grant funded by the U.S. Department of Justice’s Office on Violence Against Women. Most weeks Curtis is at agencies around the city, like the YWCA and Greater Cincinnati Behavioral Health, supporting others by listening and sharing her story.
These opportunities are important because service providers don’t always have time to focus on self-empowerment skills for people with disabilities, said Holly Watson, Project CARE manager for the YWCA. Working with advocates like Curtis and talking about issues with peers can make a real difference in someone’s life.
“Keya has so much compassion and it comes across,” Watson said. “She meets people where they are and truly cares about them.”
When one woman started crying in a STARR class, Curtis immediately stepped in to help. “Before I even had a chance to provide support to her, Keya was already walking her to another room to help her process her situation,” Watson said. “Keya then went with her to Women Helping Women and sat with her until she could see a domestic violence advocate.”
Another time, she was talking to someone while they both waited for the bus. Curtis learned the woman was in a domestic violence situation and provided resources for her to get help. “I can sense people are going through something,” Curtis said. “Where I came from, I know somebody else needs help, and I’m willing to step up and help others.”
Past experiences give Curtis insight into how to support other women. Despite her troubles, her grandmother and a woman she calls Miss Mary, who she met while living in a group home, always believed in her and told her she would be a success story.
“I like to give back to the community because the community gave to me when I was out on the streets, and I don’t forget my experience,” she said. “I came from a good family. The drug life took over me, but God brought me back and blessed me to get where I am today.”
Recently Curtis moved out of Winton Terrace and into her own apartment near one of her sisters, who is taking care of her children. Her dream is to one day operate her own group home, similar to where she lived for 10 years. “People out here want to be treated like they have a home and a family and feel comfortable in life,” she said.
To learn more about Project CARE and STARR classes, contact Holly Watson.